I’ve been reflecting on the idea of wholeness lately — probably because I spent so much of my life living as a partial version of myself. And I recognize that approach no longer works for me as I step into what I call my Act II.
For years, I was too focused on traditional obligations: career, external achievements, and meeting everyone else’s expectations. In doing so, I didn’t realize I was sacrificing a major part of myself. The part that inspires me and simply is — imaginative, adventurous, colorful, playful, soulful. That part never really saw the light of day for years.
Add to that the wounds I’ve carried (which I talk about in my podcast episodes), and it’s no wonder I lost connection to my full self and settled for a life that, while externally successful, often felt less vibrant than I’m capable of living.
Now, as I prepare for this next major act of life, my focus (and lesson) is clear: no settling, no partial living, no more sacrificing.
We all deserve to live as fully, vibrantly, and authentically as we can — embracing every part of who we are — surprises and all. That’s my intention and my wish for myself as well.
I do believe we get to make that choice at any time (there has only ever been now). And since we only get one life as the person we are, why not do what we can to make it joyful, adventurous, and deeply alive? 🤍
– Carmen Iglesias
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